"Church Assumption (RISK) #1 - It Will Never Happen to Us - Why This Assumption Puts Churches at Risk"

When we think about child abuse, it’s easy to believe that it’s a problem for other communities, other families, or other churches. But this belief—that "It will never happen to us"—is one of the most dangerous assumptions a congregation can make. As Deepak Reju highlights in his book, On Guard: Preventing and Responding to Child Abuse at Church, these assumptions leave churches unprepared and vulnerable. Here’s why:

Denial of Risk

Many churches operate under the misconception that their size, faith practices, or familiarity among members makes them immune to abuse. This denial fosters a false sense of security, blinding church leaders and members to the reality that abuse can happen anywhere. Predators often target churches precisely because of this trust and perceived safety.

Complacency

Assuming "it won’t happen here" leads to a lack of action. Without intentional measures like criminal background checks, child protection policies, and abuse prevention training, churches leave themselves and their children vulnerable. Ignoring these safeguards isn’t just complacent; it’s negligent.

Lack of Preparedness

When abuse occurs in a church that hasn’t prepared for the possibility, the response is often disorganized and inadequate. Mishandling allegations not only compounds the trauma for victims but also damages the church’s integrity and witness. A clear plan, developed in advance, is essential for responding appropriately to such situations.

Breaking the Assumption

Churches must actively reject the idea that "it will never happen to us." Instead, they should:

• Acknowledge the reality of abuse and their responsibility to protect children.

• Implement preventative measures, such as background checks, training, and clear policies.

• Develop and practice a crisis response plan to handle allegations with care and professionalism.

  
  

Conclusion

No church is immune, but every church can take steps to become a safer place. Protecting children reflects God’s heart and demonstrates the church’s commitment to being a refuge for the vulnerable. As Deepak Reju states in On Guard, "prevention and preparedness are acts of faithfulness to God and love for His children."

Start today by evaluating your church’s current practices and seeking resources to strengthen your approach.

Because child safety isn’t just a responsibility; it’s a calling.

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