Is Your Church Worth Your Loyalty? The One-Sided Commitment You Can't Afford to Ignore

Churches ask for a lot.

They want your time.

They want your talent.

They want your treasure.

They ask you to commit—faithfully, sacrificially—to their vision. They preach about community, trust, and accountability.

But let’s ask an uncomfortable question:

What do they give in return?

Before you get defensive, hear me out. I’m not talking about spiritual fulfillment or a sense of belonging. I’m talking about something much more basic. Something tangible. Your family's safety.

Churches demand loyalty, yet when it comes to protecting the most vulnerable—our children—they get strangely silent. They hesitate. They make excuses. They hide behind “grace” and “forgiveness” when real accountability is what’s needed.

How Well Do You Really Know Your Church?

You trust them with your soul, but would you trust them with your child?

• How thoroughly does your church screen its staff and volunteers?

• Does every Sunday school teacher, youth leader, and nursery worker undergo background checks?

• Is there a real child protection policy in place, or just a dusty document nobody follows?

• Who enforces it?

The truth is, far too many churches have failed in this area. And not just the megachurches that make headlines. Small churches. Neighborhood churches. Maybe even yours.

We’ve seen it happen too many times. Congregations manipulated. Parents deceived. Children harmed. And then, when the truth comes out? Damage control. Silence. Or worse—cover-ups.

So let’s ask the hard question: Does your church deserve your family’s loyalty?

The One-Sided Relationship

Churches love to remind us of our duty. To give. To serve. To submit. But when we ask for something in return—something as basic as accountability—we’re suddenly “divisive.”

We’re “stirring up trouble.”

That’s not a relationship. That’s a dictatorship.

If your church refuses to take child protection seriously, if they won’t implement real safeguards, if they dodge questions about background checks and policies—why would you stay?

No More Excuses

This is not a financial issue. PPE Kids offers child protection training, background checks, and policies on a donation-based model. Any church, no matter how small, can afford this.

So if your church isn’t prioritizing safety, it's not because they can’t.

It’s because they won’t.

That should terrify you.

It’s Time to Wake Up

How many churches need to be exposed before we get it? How many children need to suffer before we demand better? How many families need to be deceived before we stop blindly trusting?

This isn’t about losing faith in the Church. It’s about protecting the next generation. And if your church refuses to do that, then maybe they don’t deserve your tithes. Maybe they don’t deserve you.

Ask the hard questions. Demand accountability. Stop pledging allegiance to a system that won’t protect your children.

Because if safety isn’t a priority, then why are you still there?

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